Years ago, when the Hub and I were studying in Belgium, we made friends with a woman from Spain. Over the years, we’ve written letters and emails. Every Christmas, we send each other a special holiday box.

We fill the box with holiday treats and cultural tidbits from our respective countries. She sends almond-flavored candy; I send marshmallows (which she loves, by the way; apparently they don’t make them in Spain).
Every year, we both thrill to see what’s in store. I won’t give away what I sent her this year, as she likely is reading this post (Hi!). I love shopping, trying to see the Christmas-packed stores from the perspective of someone from another country. Is reindeer-poop candy funny if you’re not American?
Through this tradition, we’ve learned about one another’s cultures. Last year, we were lucky enough to go to Spain and hang out with our dear friend. In Spain, Christmas isn’t as big a deal as El Dia de los Tres Reyes. I still think back to the amazing parade we attended as well as the arrival of the three wise men by boat.
Having a pen pal as an adult is rare. Fortunately, email and Facebook make it easier. I love that Max sees our tradition and looks forward to her box with me!