Change is Good
So when I was at the Florida Conference for Women last week, Ariane de Bonvoisin talked about change. About how we all hate it, but it’s inevitable. And it got me thinking about my changes.

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Obviously, I have some major changes coming up, what with moving to China and all. And at times, it seems an insurmountable goal. Sometimes I think, “China? Are you crazy? You want to uproot your family and move to frickin China where they have banned YouTube?? What kind of a weirdo country does that??”
But then I take a deep breath and think of all the other changes I’ve survived:
- Being pregnant, finishing my MBA, and simultaneously moving out of my house.
- Three days after Max was born, moving in with my parents while the hub moved to Florida to work.
- Moving to Florida the day before the last of the big 3 hurricanes in 2004. Not having power with a 6 week old baby. Fun.
- Having 3 jobs I hated within one year.
- Quitting/getting fired from the last one and falling into starting my own company.
- Buying a Marble Slab Creamery and then watch it fail.
Dude. I can totally handle China.
So if you fear change, I suggest you think of the changes you’ve already conquered. It makes you feel good. And then visit Ariane’s site, First 30 Days, because it helps you through many common changes.
And if you don’t mind sharing, leave a comment with the change you’re dealing with right now.
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4 Comments
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Mom commented on May 24, 2009 at 6:20 pm
My life is changing because my daughter and her family are moving to China. I’m excited for them because thay are so excited ! I’m proud of them for being open to new ideas and change.
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Elsa commented on June 04, 2009 at 8:01 am
I loved Ariane @ the conference! I bought her book and I am reading it … soon I will blog about the conference and how it motivated me to make certain changes in my life… is just that between work, house, etc – my muse kinda took a break from me, hehe
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Elena commented on August 05, 2009 at 9:50 pm
I am thinking of buying a Marble Slab Creamery (already established – income producing, great location…) I am scared b/c it will take all of my savings and then some, but seems like a solid venture. Any feedback would be GREATLY appreciated. Thank you!!
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admin commented on August 06, 2009 at 10:32 am
Elena–
Be completely sure you want to do this. In this economic environment, people aren’t paying $5+ for ice cream. We found that out the hard way. Sure, it’s a solid venture but only if you dont plan on making money from it. And you will be working there A LOT. You’ll try to cut corners whereever you can and that means you’ll be scooping ice cream. If you have another job, this will be impossible. If it’s not what you like doing, it will be harder. Feel free to email me for more advice. smpayton@gmail.com